Sexual misconduct, bodily, mentally and verbal

I want to ask …
Is a sila break by bodily action against that perticular sila. ?
Mentaly action against that sila.?
And verbal action against that sila.?

In case of sexual misconduct…
sila breask if we engage in sexual act with certain criteria of individual (guarded by father, mother, family).

But I want to ask

  1. does sila break if two persons do sex. And they are agree for that ( even one of them is fall under Buddha’s guarded person criteria)…

And what kind of kamma and vipaka will be …

  1. if one of them act as seducer for other or one is first person to ask other. Even other is agree to do the act

What kind of vipaka (kamma result) for

  1. watching a porn …
  2. for mentality imagine some in sex act.
  3. for verbally speaking of sexual act in front of other to seduce them …

In general what kind of vipaka (kamma result) for a seducer

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This should answer most of the questions. The main thing is you need to understand the multi-life view. What about next life or the next 10 lives? What habits are being made? What are you “wishing for” ? Do you really want those wishes to come true? Really? What if you are forced to marry anyone in the future life that you mentally fantasize with now? These are the answers.


Wow bhante …such a detailed explanation…I am happy and i did get answers…i should start my practice seriously…


:pray:t2:Hello bhante. Grateful for the sharing. I also downloaded it for my later read.

Thank you Bhante for sharing here.

Sabbadanam Dhammadanam Jinati. :pray:t2:

Anumodana, Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu


Bhante …
One more inquiry aroused in me …

Sex as a kamma and result…

As we look at other sila … perticular hate , killing, stealing, lie, the relation between persons who doing this to other is antagonist, or parasitic…that mean one get harmed one get benifit…so if one believe in kamma it is easy for him to understand that if I do bad to others bad will happen to me. But when it comes to sila about sexual misconduct. Both individuals get pleased. The relation is kind of mutulism. Both individuals get pleasing. So it must be in good kamma and result catagory.

I know buddha adviced that u can consume marriage only with consent of gaurdians I am not talking in relation to that …
I want to ask related to modern era… where parents or guardians don’t generally interfaces in children’s Life. So atleast in this kind of society there must be no bad kamma for sexual misconduct. Or sexual activities between signal unmarried individuals.

I think more u perform sex. More u loose hiri. And otappa. U become more animal like (nudiest, exhibitionist) and those chitta and chetasika pull u to lower realm

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If you give alcohol to a homeless person is there merit.? If you give a gun to a Ukrainian, both sides of Israel or Gaza, is there merit? Both sides are happy, right?
The answer is black and white “No.” It is plainly easily seen as not good. The difference is you are not in the world of killing and drinking. So you can see this clearly. You are in the world of kāmarāga, so you don’t see this clearly.

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